umask

A umask decides who can read what you leave behind. Ours is strict.

What we keep

• Your login record: your email, a salted hash of your password, your first name, your birth date and gender, plus anything you write on your own page.
• Your conversations and her notes about you; without them she could not remember.
• Two cookies: your session, and a record that you cleared the gate for adults.
• Payment records: sums and transaction references only. We do not take cards, so no card number can reach us.
• Server logs, held briefly for security.

What we use it for

Everything we hold exists to run the chat, apply the policy and keep the lights on. Messages are handled by an AI model we run ourselves or by a supplier under the same restrictions, and automated screening reads them for safety. Nobody can buy a chat and no advertiser is shown one.

Counting visitors

One simple counter records how many people visit and roughly where from. It has no view into what you type.

Your controls

Every chat’s menu lets you rewrite her notes on you, export the log or delete it. Closing the whole account means an email to the postmaster from the address on it. If your local law gives you rights beyond these, tell us and we will honour them.